Posted by Serena on
once I have the opportunity to vent.... SUPER MUCH TIME THE IN-LAWS CAN BE DRIVING ME RIDICULOUS!!!!!!!!!! They were persistant in coming right to look at had the newborn baby (hour drive) soon after DH and I said to wait a (we wished to get home and obtain settled). Then as you go along here MIL s to find how LO and I are after which it continues to tell me make decided to produce their labs. Well we certainly have already and in my opinion labs inside is certainly crazy! but any. I had the house SPOTLESS and nice and clean when leaving on the hospital Tuesday, DH INSISTED on coming home Weds in order to "clean everything" just to assure which upset everybody bc he was gone all day cleaning the CLEAN house. Then when he go back to the doctor's he brought his friend(the old roomie who didnt pay out rent and hooded up with all the y. o sister). persisted... Finally after making at p Weds, DH's dad and mom and sister show up(didnt know all the sister was coming). FINALLY at midnight I could sleep. Yesterday while waiting to move home I was required to sit and listen to the IN LAWS(all of them) speak about how much the infant looked or had attributes of them... ALL THEM ALL. I felt absolutely left-out, like As i wasnt even sitting there. Not to cover PISSED bc they had nerve to ) "hog" holding the , and ) just on about the way in which DH and OUR baby looked like just about all. IDK if that it was "new mother" reactions or what but My group is so tired of hearing she has MIL's fingers, DH's paws, FIL's this, SIL's this... UM it takes to help make her and she's going to have both your partner's and I's features not just HIS. So thinking lastnight couldnt decline, LO wasnt qualified to come home with us, which broke our heart, I RESENTED leaving her right away, I get residence to empty processor chip bags on my great room floor, someone had went thru and utilized all my make-up along with hair products and didnt offer, I had dingy towels laying and incapacitated at the washer, sink stuffed with dishes, my property smelled like awful dirty-dog smell as well as SIL had your ex stuff (laptop, cellphone, books) scattered on floor and lounger. IM still very upset i always came home to this fact, I am a truly clean person and made sure my home was clean to bring my baby home to plus it was FILTHY, DH vaccumed lastnight( Used to do it last tuesday before you go to the hosp. ) and he previously to EMPTY the container in the vaccum times, for under the living area. As for today, we got baby home as well as inlaws were able to leave around still MIL didnt need to go so your lover told DH to be able to ask his parent if he wanted to go fishing, hence DH did. WE'RE FURIOUS!!!! Not only did each goes, but they be sure to consider being gone through the night, they had to travel the "the spot" which is now over not to mention hour from my house, plus DH will save money money than appropriate. I am highly pissed that DH may just leave a long time after getting this LO home. We're cranky, still crampy including a little sore, I really only desire to spend time tranquil and enjoying LO with the help of DH. NOT sensing uncomfortable, and ensnared with MIL and also SIL and rowdy, stinky dogs... UGHHHHHHHHHh.